People often change how they act or what they think to fit in with others. This can happen in different ways. For example, when someone acts like they agree with people, but inside they don't, that's one kind. When someone changes because they admire someone famous, that's another kind. Sometimes, people really believe in what they are doing or saying and agree inside and out.
We change to fit in for two main reasons. We want to be correct and we want people to like us. When we are not sure what's right, we look at what others do or say to help us decide. This is because we want to make smart choices. Other times, we just want to be part of the group and make others happy, so we go along with what they expect.
There are many ways how this happens, and people who study how we interact with each other - social psychologists - have a lot to say about this. One famous psychologist divided the ways we change into three groups. Remember, we sometimes change just a little, and sometimes a lot, depending on who is around us and what we want to achieve by fitting in.
"Me Too" is a powerful phrase that people use to share their bad experiences with sexual abuse and harassment. It started when Tarana Burke, who survived sexual assault, used "Me Too" on the internet in 2006. Later, in 2017, many people began to use #MeToo on social media to show how big the problem is. The movement helps support those who have been hurt, by showing them that they are not alone and that many others have gone through similar experiences, especially at work.
The movement got really big in 2017 when a lot of people accused a famous movie maker, Harvey Weinstein, of doing bad things. An actress named Alyssa Milano asked people on Twitter to write "Me too" if they had been harassed or hurt. This idea came from her friend. Many famous people, like Gwyneth Paltrow and Jennifer Lawrence, also shared their stories. Newspapers and TV talked a lot about harassment, especially in Hollywood, and some people lost their jobs because of it.
Millions of people have used the phrase "Me Too" in English and other languages all over the world. Now, it's not just about sharing stories; it's also about getting justice for people who don't have much power. After #MeToo got popular, a big social media place called Facebook said that many people there knew at least one friend who said they had been hurt in a sexual way.
A long time ago, in the 1980s, in the United States, people started to worry a lot about something called "Satanic panic". This was when many people believed in stories about bad things happening that involved the devil, but these stories were not true. A book called "Michelle Remembers" written by a man named Lawrence Pazder and a woman named Michelle Smith, who he later married, started these worries. They said that Michelle remembered bad things happening to her that had to do with the devil, but the way they said she remembered it is not trusted by people today.
People then started to say that there were secret groups that hurt children in bad ways as part of devil rituals. They thought that even rich and important people were in these groups, and they did very bad things like hurting children on purpose, making them be in adult movies, or selling them.
Many people, like lawyers, therapists, and people who worked with kids who were hurt, were involved in this. Different kinds of people who didn't usually work together, like religious people, police, and therapists, also got involved. The idea changed over time and got mixed up with other ideas about the mind and about people not trusting the government.
The whole thing got more attention because of the book "Michelle Remembers". Even today, people still talk about it, but everyone does not agree if these bad things really happened or not.